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Plus my curiosity got the better of me & started googling this whole thing and it seems like there are lots of straight guys who actually do think they're gross or at least weird. he can just be ridiculously oblivious sometimes and like i said before he's not the greatest at explaining stuff so i'm sure that's part of it too. i just think gross is bad word to try to explain it with lol.īut seriously my bf is the least assholish, most mature guy i've ever known, period, so i know he wasn't saying it to be a dick or anything. but i don't seriously think they're gross. like i know he thinks i'm seriously like the most beautiful girl in the world ever pretty much but still it's just hard to shake.īut i like your explanation tisha i know what you mean like when i first saw a penis i was pretty weirded out but after a day i was like "okay big deal" and i didn't think it was gross but i'll admit genitals are pretty weird and even kind of funny, & sometimes in a way i guess even kind of gross. i don't think he thought i'd take it personally but it's just hard for me to separate it. he felt horrible afterward cause now he knows that comment made me feel gross & that wasn't his intent at all.
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i think he could tell he made a mistake right after he said it cuz i think he expected me to understand, like it was common knowledge kind of. we were just talking about sexual stuff & how we felt about different things & it just came out. To answer your question tisha, no, we weren't like in the act or anything when it happened. Reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): The more experienced man will probably say 'beautiful.' Ask any guy who is sexually active and then has to go without for awhile whether or not the Vajj is 'beautiful' or 'ugly'. If a man or a woman has had sex for some period of time what they think is 'beautiful' and 'ugly' change. Reader, webby1 +, writes (26 June 2011):Ĭaulk this up as another reason to not have sex with 12 year olds! (That is just an illustration.) Enjoying the genitals of the partner is an acquired taste like eating artichokes. Women are the most beautiful, delightful, loving and important beings in life. I humbly hope by writing this a few women might change their minds about themselves, and instead search for affirmation that most men feel this way, and that it is true. I am sad to learn some women don't know or feel their bodies are the most beautiful "art of life" possible. Reader, Jay Law +, writes (22 April 2018): can some guy explain this to me? is it normal for guys to be kinda grossed out/ weirded out by vaginas? and should i be worried that he's grossed out whenever he's doing something to me? or is it not as big of a deal as i'm making it?įancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! now i'm scared i'm gonna feel weird whenever he fingers me/ goes down on me/ has sex with me cuz i'll constantly be worrying he's just doing it as a chore and not cuz he likes it since apparently vaginas are gross ha. he keeps saying that's not how it is at all but i don't really get how lol. and i can't really help but feel gross now cause i have something on me that he thinks is gross. like, maybe lots of guys think this, but i don't think many girls realize it if so (probably with good reason - that kind of just seems like a secret guys should keep to themselves IMO). i think he was surprised when i didn't get what he was trying to say. i don't get how you can want to f*ck something you think is creepy. (like the guy in superbad who's like "have you ever looked at porn and seen a picture of just a vagina? not for me.") this just confuses me ha.
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he said it's nothing personal at all and i shouldn't feel weird about it cuz lots of guys think that and it's not a big deal but the vibe i got was that basically he ( and according to him, other guys too) think vaginas are kind of weird/gross/creepy yet they like them at the same time basically just for what they can do and how they feel etc. know it's not cuz he's gay or anything cause i've known him for a long time and plus he's grossed out by gayness almost to the point of being homophobic IMO which i think isn't very nice of him but w/e at least i know he's not gay ha.Īnyway, i said girls don't always think penises are exactly pretty either but i don't know many girls who'd go as far as to say "gross" he said vaginas are different cuz they're just so much more complex and wrinkly and foldy etc. plus he sucks at explaining things.) and said that almost every guy he knows is in the same boat. Sitemapĭo lots of guys think vaginas are sort of gross/weird?ĭo most guys think vaginas are kind of gross? bc my boyfriend mentioned it the other day (he said "gross" isn't really the right word - and he kinda regretted using the word gross because he realized it probably came across as way too harsh. Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!